Do you feel trapped or stuck in your current situation, leaving you stressed, restless, dissatisfied and unfulfilled? I get you! I have been there many times over the course of my life.
It started in my 20s where I found myself without a clear sense of direction. I followed the societal script, conforming to what others deemed successful. I went from college to working in the health foods industry to the cut throat world of high tech. All of my decisions were influenced by the people around me and left me feeling restless.
Fast forward to my 30s, the survivalist in me took over – a relentless pursuit of material needs, competitiveness, and scaling the corporate ladder. I lived a life founded on willpower that was born out of fear, shame, guilt and resentment. These emotions manifested as competitiveness, a need to exceed, boldness, and authority. All the makings of a warrior, yet this warrior was built by brute force, not soul force.
It wasn’t until my 40s that I decided to break free from the conventional mold, seeking something with more meaning, fulfillment and contentment that I had been missing for far too long. I found myself deeply unsatisfied in my high-stress corporate job, where the demands of the fast-paced environment often left me feeling overwhelmed and burnt out. The constant pressure of managing high risk projects and travel took a toll on my physical and mental health. I longed for a change that would allow me to rediscover what I truly wanted. It took me many years to make the courageous decision to step away from the corporate world and pursue a different path.
Little did I know hitting the reset button would lead me to self-introspection through extensive reading, self-assessments, pursuing a Master’s degree in counseling, and supporting marginalized communities in addressing their mental and physical health needs. It helped me to cultivate a life that was more meaningful.
Although the work was meaningful, there was still this lingering sense of duty, answering to others and operating from social norms.
During the late summer of 2020, 5 months into the pandemic, a profound realization struck me. Simply altering my career path was inadequate; I was missing the essence of a fulfilled life. In the words of Tony Robbins, “What we find fulfilling is based on our values, our beliefs and our deepest human needs.”
Embracing this truth initiates the journey of breaking down self-imposed barriers, unveiling our most cherished selves, and uncovering the gateway to a life of genuine fulfillment. My personal revelation ignited a transformation, where I continue to support others while upholding my values, strengths, passions, and personal aspirations.
As I share my story, I hope it inspires you to take stock in where you are now. Ask yourself, is this the version of you that you love the most? If not, who do you want to become? What is holding you back? How will you get there?
If you find yourself yearning for change, having a guide who can relate, I’m here to support you through the process. I would love to hear from you!
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